Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Life

My life revolves around my daughter.
I don't care about my work anymore, I leave it unsettle everday at 6pm, go home for her.
Social life is non-exixtence. I don't have many friends who I see regularly. I abandon my friends.
I don't go out at night, because I want to hug and kiss my daughter good night before she goes to sleep.
I don't watch tv and read book as much as I used to because I want to watch every single of my daughter's move.
I don't have time to travel with friends anymore, because if I do, I have to bring along daughter & husband, because I can't go 24 hours without her, but bringing them is impossible because husband's works always clash with mine, and I can't leave my work easily because I have many things unsettle.
She is almost 1 year & 6 months now. We have never been seperated more than 24 hours. I have never slept at night without her by my side.
I have lost many things, I have sacrifice a lot.
It could have been a dull life, but my daughter makes my dull life interesting.

Saturday, September 10, 2011

Aku terima nikahnya....

“Aku terima nikahnya dgn si dia binti si ayah dia dengan mas kahwinnya RM..”
Itu yang tersurat. tersirat? ini dia,
“Aku tanggung dosa-dosa si dia dari ibu bapanya, apa saja dosa yang dia buat, aku tanggung dan bkn lg ibu bapanya tanggung, & aku tanggung dosa bakal anak-anak aku. Kalau gagal, maka aku fasik, dayus & aku rela masuk neraka dan malaikat Zabaniyah melibas aku hingga pecah badan aku”
pergh..mari berfikir sejenak.. smbil muhasabah diri… huhu..
credit: VLTRN


Oleh itu, pastikan suami selalu solat, pastikan dia tidak lalai menjaga diri isteri (saya) & anak-anak. Supaya dia tidak masuk neraka. Sebagai isteri (saya) pastikan diri tidak melakukan maksiat, buat macam-macam dosa, nanti suami tidak tegur, turut sama berdosa. Pastikan anak-anak tidak  buat maksiat, rajin beribadah, takut nanti suami lupa tegur anak-anak, suami turut sama berdosa.

Ingat ya isteri (saya).